Bringing a new puppy home is one of the loveliest days you'll have, and one of the most overwhelming. The single most useful thing I can tell you, as someone who meets these puppies a few weeks later in the salon, is to keep everything calm and low-key for the first week. Your puppy has just left its mum, its littermates and the only home it has ever known, all in one afternoon. Your job in those first days isn't to teach or entertain, it's simply to help them feel safe. Get that right and everything else, from house training to grooming, comes far more easily.
Here's exactly what I'd focus on in that first week, and the little things that make a big difference.
Before you collect them: the setup
A calm arrival starts with a bit of preparation the day before. Have these ready:
- A cosy sleeping spot, a crate or a soft bed, tucked somewhere quiet but not isolated.
- Food and water bowls, plus the same food the breeder was using (change it gradually, if at all).
- A puppy-proofed space, with cables tidied away, shoes lifted and houseplants moved (some are toxic).
- A blanket or soft toy that smells of mum and the litter. Ask the breeder for one when you visit.
- A collar, harness and lead for later, and a soft towel or two.
The Blue Cross guide to bringing your new puppy home suggests collecting your puppy at least an hour after they've eaten to reduce travel sickness, and bringing that familiar-smelling blanket along for the journey. It's a small thing that really does soothe a nervous passenger.
The first day: keep it small
When you get home, let your puppy explore one or two rooms and the garden at their own pace. Resist the urge to invite the whole street round to meet them. Too many new faces, hands and noises on day one is genuinely overwhelming for a tiny brain. Offer water, show them where their bed is, and let them potter and nap. Puppies sleep an enormous amount, and that sleep is when they process everything.
Groomer's tip: From day one, gently handle your puppy's paws, ears and muzzle for a few seconds at a time, then give a treat. This early, positive touch is the best possible groundwork for stress-free nail trims and grooming later. I can always tell which puppies have been gently handled at home, they melt onto the table.
The first week: routine, routine, routine
Puppies feel safest when the day is predictable. You don't need a rigid timetable, just a gentle rhythm:
- Toilet trips first thing, after every meal, after every nap and before bed. Take them to the same spot and praise calmly when they go.
- Regular small meals, usually three or four a day at this age, at roughly the same times.
- Short bursts of play and gentle exploration, followed by plenty of rest.
- Quiet nap times in their bed or crate so they learn to settle alone.
Don't rush to socialise everywhere yet. Until the vaccination course is complete, outdoor public spaces are off-limits, but you can still safely socialise your puppy by carrying them out and about and inviting a few calm, vaccinated adult dogs to visit. The Blue Cross advice on socialising your puppy is a lovely gentle starting point, and worth a read before you get carried away.
Nights, toilet training and the wobbles
The first few nights are often the hardest. A little whining is completely normal, your puppy is asking where everyone went. Most owners find it far easier to have the puppy sleeping in a crate or bed in their bedroom to begin with, then move them gradually once they're settled. I've written a whole separate guide on settling a crying puppy at night, because it deserves one.
Expect a few toilet accidents and don't tell your puppy off for them. Just clean up quietly (an enzyme cleaner stops them re-marking the spot) and take them out more often. Punishment only teaches a puppy to hide away to wee, which makes house training slower, not faster.
Booking that all-important first vet visit
Register with a local vet in your first day or two and book a health check. Your vet will confirm the vaccination timetable, discuss worming and flea prevention, and microchipping if it isn't done. This visit also sets the clock for when your puppy can safely head out into the wider world, and when that gentle first groom can happen.
Frequently asked questions
What do I need before bringing a new puppy home?
A bed or crate, food and water bowls, the breeder's current food, a familiar-smelling blanket, a collar, harness and lead, and a puppy-proofed room. Sorting this the day before means a calm, unhurried arrival.
How long does it take for a new puppy to settle in?
Most puppies start to relax within a few days and feel properly at home within two to three weeks. Keeping the first week quiet, predictable and low-key speeds this up enormously.
Should I let visitors meet my new puppy straight away?
Hold off for the first few days. A stream of excited visitors is overwhelming. Let your puppy find their feet first, then introduce a few calm people at a time.
When can I start grooming my new puppy at home?
Straight away, gently. Short, positive sessions of brushing and handling paws, ears and muzzle build lifelong confidence. A professional first groom usually waits until vaccinations are complete.
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